• Is it really an either/or preference?

    I have been blessed with opportunities to live just a causeway away from the beach, as well as at the base of the Rockies. I grew up in the Mid-Atlantic region and have most recently lived in three Midwestern States. Each place has provided different opportunities to share time with family, develop new friendships, and expand my understanding of regional and sometimes cultural differences.

    I can still close my eyes and picture the magnificence of Pike’s Peak. My Mom and I used to laughingly say that the mountain looked different from every angle, as we went about our daily activities in Colorado Springs. It has been nearly twenty years since I first saw that topographic prominence, but its beauty is permanently etched in my memory. When I was living in Central Nebraska, and commuting back to the Springs on weekends; I would wind my way across the plains of Eastern Colorado. There was a palpable anticipation of that first glimpse of mountains in the distance. It is always the same. Initially you wonder whether you are seeing clouds on the horizon, or the first glimpse of the Rockies. You feel the hope in your heart, that they will sharpen up, and define themselves as distant peaks. Every time I approach Colorado from the East, I am thrown into a reverie, and consider the thoughts of the early settlers who made their way westward (On a sidenote, I want to say that Kansas gets a bum rap. It is not that Western Kansas has a never-ending expanse of plains. The truth of the matter, is that until you see the mountains you never, psychologically, accept that you are actually IN Colorado. I assure you that the plains of Eastern Colorado are formidable, and extremely windy).

    As a child, my Grandparents had all retired to Florida’s Space Coast. I enjoyed visiting them immensely. As an adult, we moved to Florida with our children. I was initially excited. I was sure that we would spend countless hours at the beach. In six years, we may have gone to the beach a dozen times. We were all busy with life. There was work and school, and the typical routines that we fall into. Things that we had enjoyed in the Mid-Atlantic region, were not as pleasant. Gardening in the presence of fire ants was unpleasant, and those palmetto bugs were always trying to get into the house, probably to escape the heat and humidity. Last but not least: the sand was everywhere! I remember the childhood pleasure of feeling the squishiness of sand between my toes, and juxtapose that with the discomfort of traipsing across a crowded beach of molten sand in search of a spot to lay our towels. Once situated, it was amazing to look out across the vast expanse of the Atlantic. The ocean is amazing, and sometimes terrifying. The year before we moved, four hurricanes made landfall in a region that had been spared for nearly three decades. I learned a lot about flood mitigation during that time, and when we moved away, there were still blue tarps on roofs. I cried later that next year, as I watched news reports of Katrina, from the comfort of Colorado Springs.

    I think it is safe to say that I would prefer the mountains if I only had two choices; but the truth of the matter is that I love the Mid-West. From here, in the center of the Country, no place seems too far to visit, and there are still entire regions of North America that I have not yet explored. I am amused that when we were headed towards Colorado, we imagined a visit to the Grand Canyon, like it was going to be right around the corner. We still have not made the trip. This Country is vast and beautiful. I treasure every mile I traverse, and look forward to seeing more of it, and as an independent Travel Agent, I can help you explore the United States and the World. It is your oyster. Keep me in mind, and reach out to me when you are ready to explore!

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    Daily writing prompt
    Beach or mountains? Which do you prefer? Why?

  • ‘Tis the season…for your favorite horror film!

    As we near the end of October we face a barrage of scary movies. Nowadays, we can stream the “classics” in the comfort of our own homes, not to mention view the slew of new stuff at a theater nearby!

    In my younger days viewing those thrillers was as much a part of Halloween as Trick-or-Treating, although not nearly as enjoyable as the candy! In retrospect, I did not care much for those films. I was not really frightened by them; I just thought say were soooo bad. Frankly the scariest part of those movies was the tendency of the “potential victims”, to knock the “killer” out and then sit down next to them, to catch their breath (or death).

    It was quite literally the only reason I screamed. I just could not imagine sticking around waiting for the potential murderer to regain consciousness! It was not fear that drove my response; I was appalled by the utter foolishness. I prefer to think that if I were in that situation, I would take actions to, either; ensure that villain is never going to regain consciousness, or take off and keep running until I reach civilization.

    I do not watch that sort of movie any longer, so I had not really reflected on how much they annoyed me. Recently, however, I realized that most of us are still shaking our heads, as we watch Netflix, et cetera. Forget about “Freddy Kruger,” I am on season 3 of a drama that, ostensibly, could have wrapped up in one season if not for the missteps along the way. I just noticed that there is now a 4th season available (what else could go wrong?!?!), and I know that I will keep watching until the end.

    Even at my age, there are those epiphanies when you recall and recognize the intricacies of writing. As I lay in bed last night, I found myself reflecting on the importance of a “hook.” It works! As silly as it seems, we have the capacity to forgive those inconceivable gaffs designed to prolong the story. They infuse the characters with just enough gullibility to be endearing, and secure our emotional connection to the ultimate plot. It is funny, we learn so much, and then gradually push that knowledge to the back of our minds. It is like so many of the things we put on auto-pilot. To be honest, I think a lot about the stuff I used to know. I recently lost my dad after his battle with dementia. Most of us lose our parents twice these days: the curse of our longer life expectancy. Like many, I am contemplating ways to exercise these old brain-cells of mine. Maybe I will flex them by looking into a creative writing class. I can officially say that I have forgotten more than many people will ever know, lol!

    *As always, I am all over the place (It is my super-power), but let us circle back to Halloween. When I was teenager, we lived in a neighborhood where Trick-or-Treating was a big deal! My father was very gregarious and enthusiastic. One Halloween, he put on a ridiculous fluorescent orange raincoat (before florescent raincoats were cool, lol) and a rubber devils mask complete with horns. He then secreted himself behind some bushes near our front door, and jumped out at the neighborhood children as they approached the front porch. For the most part it was entertaining, but my best friend’s little sisters were so traumatized that they NEVER Trick-or-Treated at our house again! I am a little ashamed that I still find myself laughing out loud when I think about that, but if you had been there; you would be laughing too. Honestly, it is nice to have a laugh about my dad, in the wake of so many tears recently. I am sure he is chuckling right along with me. He was a good man.

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